i been saying this! if you’re dating intentionally, you should date multiple ppl. don’t put all of your eggs in the same basket ppl should treat dating like a job hunt if you wanna job, you don’t apply for 1 job, right? you apply for multiple jobs the same way you should date multiple ppl. you go on multiple interviews w/different employers, the same way you should go on multiple dates w/different ppl after trying jobs/people out, you accept the best job offer & choose the best relationship