Where would you like for dinner tonight ?

I don’t know about other men. I know for ME, and I’ll ask a woman out in a date when I feel a certain way being around her. I don’t look for hookups, or to sate my lusts. I go by my needs now. Having a pretty lady rub up on me may be what I want, but that’s not what I need. What I need is conveyed by a feeling that bubbles up in my chest. It’s light, airy, and I don’t feel physically attracted right away like lust. It’s different, it’s clearer, it’s a deeper attraction. That’s when I ask.

2 weeks, 3 days, 12 hours, 5 and a half minutes. Anything less or anything more is absolutely unacceptable

depends really on the man and the relationship, you should know them enough to know that they are comfortable around you