Marriage is teamwork. My husband does Bible study with the kids Sunday evenings. I don’t join them because that’s the time I prep dinner and school meal There’s no reason why one person should be carrying the whole load in marriage. Team spirit must reflect in everything - not 50/50. But 100/100. This means you are both committed to working together and making the load lighter for two of you. Two must be better than one. A marriage where one person is doing it all is not healthy.