Before I met my husband these were a few things I just couldn’t get over no matter how nice of a guy they were: 1) bad breath 😷 2) high pitch voices 3) Mr. Needs Attention- these are the men that always inserts himself into the conversation and has to share their piece, needs for everyone to laugh at his joke so he tells it again and again, loves to be loud so he is heard over the rest. 4) “Mr. Nice Guy” who isn’t nice at all and is condescending and possessive early on 5) he got a big butt😂

Do you do the little things a lot of things you described is about self. Do you bring flowers do you actually care? The women who is after your pockets won’t care about the small things

Who are you other than what you've listed? And where and how are you looking for connection?

Sometimes a person can be the total package as far as accomplishments but their mental can be the problem. Were you raised in trauma or anything that you need to heal from? Have you done so? What is your relationship like with your mother? What are your listening skills like? There could be other reasons why things don't work out. God could also be preserving you for the woman he has for you. Some are just set apart. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sometimes it’s where you live, the type of person you are looking for, or where you’re looking for these people. Either way if it’s meant for you, it’ll find you.

You are exactly what a woman wants. Your problem may be that you are entertaining the wrong woman or the wrong person or whichever way it applies to you but you're exactly what I want a woman someone who knows what she wants and don't play around with it

Ok but are you funny?

Everyone has said solid points and you also just could have not met your person yet. There’s millions of people. Your person could be very shy or in a different state. The “nice guys finish last” on your profile is a little victimy. Your person could be not your type now but your type in 5 years when they’ve changed or you’ve changed. Biggest one I agreed with is that you listed your accomplishments instead of character traits. Also, it’s not necessarily supposed to be easy.

You’re looking for women that don’t value who/what you are and once you realize it you probably continue with them to prove your value instead of moving on. Women do the same thing. You don’t need ‘women’ to want you…..you need one woman to truly see you. That’s it.

Yes, you're missing the right one for you. Give thanks you're not getting stuck with one of the wrong ones for you. Be patient and keep doing you.