Who Should Be Paying?:🧵 Lately, I’ve noticed alot of discourse about men who dont want to pay for first dates & are testing women to see if they’ll pay their half and then assuming they’re just using men or would expect a man to fund the whole relationship just based off her believing a man should pay for the first date. Then there are women who call it low effort if a man doesnt roll out the red carpet and seem to care more about the ambiance and price point of the location than the purpose..