I'm finally done, no more family court fallout. Every case and financial account is closed. Not many people will understand just how much better my quality of life is, even just from May. I get overwhelmed thinking about it. Worth saying again — The biggest reason I never dated after my marriage is I didn't want anyone around who'd sit and watch me struggle with baggage. In that time I fixed myself, but also sabotaged a good thing or two over the years.