I'm at a point in life where I don't want a girlfriend or a wife. All I want is a good friend with whom I can share moments of joy and despair. Someone with whom I can travel and make memories. Someone who believes in growing together rather than just using each other. I am choosy but when the right person arrives ik I'll let my guards down. Been a people pleaser all this time but I realised I should let people walk in and out of my life on their own. This isn't an invitation to befriend me.