Deep down you are taking yourself for granted. Perhaps you are not using your time to have fun and pursue your hobbies. These women are just a reflection of how you treat yourself. The surface level answer is there is nothing wrong with you. Thank God that these women are showing early that they don't respect other people's time. Sensitive people suffer in the first of the movie of their life and insensitive people suffer in the second half of their life. Having fun is the most magnetic thing.