When you marry your soulmate you don’t think it can be any better than that. I’m here to tell you that I was able to do it twice so I’m twice as lucky. There are stages in a marriage.. desire, love, like, don’t touch me, non verbal conversations, avoidance, like, reunion, buddies, care taker and dreamer of what’s been. Happy 31st-ish anniversary to the one that to this day still makes me say “DAMN” when she walks away.