For the unwilling one that left. The grass isn't always greener, and good luck to you finding someone who truly loved, and cared for you, just for you. Unconditional love doesn't just come right on along again, you will soon find that out, and a future endeavor will fall very short of that. Guaranteed. Your search will be in vain. Unhappiness will end up haunting your days, as that unhappiness was within you, as you will continue to struggle to validate those feelings.