Why can't we make piece with the fact that any situation has options? Take breastfeeding, for example. Obviously what nature intended, right? Oh, wait a minute, in one's particular situation it's not what's available, what's the next best option? And so on. If that's the thinking we apply to our decisions than surely no one should feel ashamed? From this angle everyone is just choosing THE BEST AVAILABLE OPTION. So why are we so hurt and so polarised? 🤔