Her saying one thing but mentally planning the opposite was absolutely wrong. As for somebody not being able to be with you due to differing faiths, understandable. Some faiths have pretty specific ways of life that you have to conform to and if they realize that their partner isn't going to be able to do that then they, regrettably, I'm sure, can't commit to them. Also im sure it's strange for some to think, due to their faith, that u 2 possibly won't end up in the same place when u both die.