I did this with the most masc appearing and acting young teenage girl when I was a (usually very good) youth leader. She hated it and said “female!” Ugh I am not quite sure the right way to be because I don’t want to make someone like her upset by my question but also don’t want to misgender someone who so blatantly is complex in the way they express their gender. I guess I could have used the context clues that she’s from a small town in a southern state but that feels like stereotyping…