My dad taught me to be independent and instilled a great work ethic in me but he also said when I get married and we have children then it that is the time to be dependent on my husband so I can raise my babies and my husband will provide for the family and that is exactly what I did, I was independent and making my own money until my husband and I got married and now we have 2 kids and I’m a SAHM and he works so hard to provide for all of us. I have been blessed to find such a great man

Two daughters and both are being taught explicitly that that no other person besides themselves is responsible for their happiness. That includes making enough money and their own mental health. People are not there to be transactions. You should surround yourself with people that make you feel heard, supported, and loved. And, not one of those things are represented by money in any way shape or form. Never be afraid to ask for help, but also never think differently of them if they couldn't.

No daddy was right by telling you that, what he didn't do was tell you how to act if you expect to get that. A lot of domen want a man to provide for them while they do whatever they want. It doesn't work that way

Providing is not all about money...

Men who blab about gold diggers all day long but praise tradwives astound me. Traddies are just more subtle n clever about it💀💀

So true, my father always told me to be with someone who actually loves me for who am & who will keep me safe. Providing doesn’t always mean money either.

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I feel like the problem is that some women expect the man to do everything while she does nothing. “He has to have money, he has to buy me nice things, he has to.” But it’s like what are you as a woman, doing for yourself? Generosity is one thing but expecting someone to do for you is another.

It ain't 1953 no more. Get ya lazy ass up n work