I don’t want a worldly relationship… I want one with a like minded woman who understands the uglies of the world & makes sure both of our minds are at peace… we operate as one & put each other first… wouldn’t call my ideals for our relationship that I want to protect “controlling”… gaslighting is very much a strong tactic that I want zero parts of in any manner… I don’t believe in privacy within a relationship.. you become one & I offer the same things I ask for.. I don’t hide anything