Take it from me buddy, most people with controversial preferences manage to live pretty peaceful lives when they learn to keep that shit to themselves and not go out of their way to bother anyone with it💀🤏🎻

Nah you have your preferences. Just like I don’t find “portly” men attractive. I am not asking for some dude with a six pack, just one that can be healthy with me. My body type is “you can see that she works out and does not say no to a cookie.” 😂 Also, Financial security. I don’t want is his money, I just want a man who DOES NOT blow all his money and then come crying to me that he needs help that he spent all his money.

You’re not bad. You have preferences, and quite frankly if a person has children they shouldn’t want to date someone who DOESN’T want children…deciding to do so w the impression that the person’s mind will change at some point is them setting themselves & their child/children up for failure and heartbreak.