Don’t

He’s not the problem you are. A man should be able let his guard down and be emotionally. The only person who he trust and confides in is his woman. Yet you’ll call him soft and tell your friends, which worsens the situation and cuts him down. Women complain: they want a man who more emotional. Now you have one instead of listening, teaching, helping him, you keep cutting him down. If you’re not happy, don’t look for faults in him, look inward and see what you can / need to change.