Napaka sakit manganak. Pag uwe galing ospital wala ka na time mag pahinga. Napaka sakit ng tahi mo pero kailangan mo alagaan anak mo. Napaka sakit magbreastfeed. Wala kang tulog. Nakaka drain. Oo fulfilling magka anak pero twing iisipin kong pag dadaanan ko ung hirap? Never again. Isama mo na din ung hair fall, body changes, mood swings. 4 years old na anak ko ngayon at hindi ako nagkaka baby fever. Opinion ko lang po ito. No shame sa mga gusto pa mag anak 😊

Trauma from giving birth dahil may kailangan alisin na cyst na katabi ng fetus so emergency op. Guilt, cause I know pag ka nagka2nd na magiiba dynamics. Financial stabilityyy

PPD. And people tell you "it's all in your mind". So, yep. Husband's been asking me kahit maka 2 lang but I said pass.

Yaya problems. Hirap humanap ng yaya na magtatagal

I know that I’ll be one of the mommies na one and done. It is a personal choice and a decision we did as husband and wife, we first checked the state of our finances, our lifestyle, on how many kids we can rear into this world providing them much attention, love and quality of life. We didn’t listen much to the pressure from outside. You do you, you know what’s best for your family.

Ang mahal mag anak eh, pero on the back mo my heart shempre gusto ko. Pero kung titipirin ko lang din ung first child ko dahil nga di naman namin afford. Wag na lang , iniisip ko pa lang na titipirin ko ung first child ko para sa second child ko naiiyak nako eh.

Living abroad, childcare is difficult especially both my hubby and I are working full

I also want to be one and done but my husband thinks otherwise 😅 I just want to give the best life possible to my daughter. And I also agree with one mommy na mag aanak ulit pero titipirin lang sila dalawa. I don't want that to happen. I want to be the version of myself for my daughter. Bukod dun, yes ayoko na din ma experience un challenges ng pregnancy. Di ko na maimagine going through that again 😅

We only have two and done. Nagpavasectomy si husband. Pareho kameng laki sa hirap kaya nagdecide kame na dalawa lang. Ang mahal ng bilihin ngayon and I don’t want my children to live in poverty like we do.

Please refer to my second thread, andun lahat my thoughts about it 😅