So girl works next door has been going through a really hard time and I was just trying to be nice and asked if she wanted to go to a dive bar with me to blow off steam and just help her have a night with no worries. She told me if thats all I can afford to do with her not to waist her time..... And this is why I don't even try anymore and prefer a book or music cause even when just trying to be nice it doesn't seem like enough when id give the world to anyone that deserved it.