When things go wrong for an insecure person, if they can't blame themselves they will blame whatever it is catching their attention that they either dislike or are jealous of. I think this is why things that get a lot of attention are blamed for stuff they didn't cause. Scapegoats by rule are things that draw your attention. So they blame their feelings of inadequacy on whatever made them feel inadequate, instead of blaming their own issues with self esteem because they can't handle that.🧵1