Luck, and more luck. Online dating is not as easy as it sounds, especially if you're looking for a good men Most people you'll find online are catfishers, scammers, There are a few good users here and there, but again, you'll need luck to even meet one. But if you do, well, I have to say it's worth all the effort it's not to say that it's impossible to find love there, and I have myself to prove it. U just need to patience, determination, effort, and, of course, a good profile. Good luck!