as a 46yo cis white guy can i please be ignored koz my opinion doesn't matter? nah, seriously, go for it girl! can i be your chaperone? us late-70s kids, the Xillennials, we gotta realise finally that we're grown-ups now and our parents can't treat us like pets any more. dress whatever way you want! i do now, it's SO relieving to just relax and be yourself ...