This. I just could not imagine paying somebody that I don’t know to raise my children while I worked. Those are my babies😭 I had my kids because I wanted to be a mom. I want to raise them and be there for everything they’re only young for such a short time. I’m so grateful I get to do that. I know everybody can’t afford to stay home with their children but the people who can and choose not to I literally will never understand. Money comes and goes your kids only have one childhood.