So, you never bothered to ask those that approached you?

Yo for real love hard is so hard to find when every girl wants the better one all the time

You don’t gain anything from being with a single mother

You all have very interesting perspectives and takes! I'm a single mother and i've never had an issue with dating or relationships because of that. I was just curious because I see so many men post they don't want to be with a single mother and I've never had that experience. I was lucky enough to have a step father who continued to play the role as "dad" even when my parents divorced recently even when I myself am an adult. But keep the replies coming! I love to learn about others 🫶🏼

The reasons are pretty self explanatory. People with kids should just date people with kids. The end

I’m going to love your kid(s) and then be trapped by own heart. Stay with you even when I want to leave because being a good father and role model is just as important as the woman I’m with. I’m taking on a responsibility I don’t want to walk away from. One I won’t walk away from. Ever. Too much commitment for me off the bat. Go call your baby daddy and give it another shot. forthekids 😅

The same way yall pass on men cuz he ain't tall enough or have dreads lol we have standards to bitch get use to it

Women won’t give commitment energy to the new man no matter what that new man does. But the mom will put all that commitment energy toward everything else. The mom has the skills to do it but just won’t.

For me I wanted to start my own family, not walk into one. I believe building together from ground up is very important. Kids in the beginning tend to divide time and energy needed to create a proper bond with your mate. Everyone these days just out there trauma bonding and it shows. The work is gone. Few flirty text messages and half you drop your panties anymore. I’ve worked for months in my youth just for a date. Modesty, virtue, and femininity are hated by women but valued greatly by men.

How men have been treated by single mothers. Juice isn’t worth the squeeze