(3) much more "mature" than he is (aka traumatized/parentified). He has never babysat, while when I was his age I'd spend my school breaks with a 9, 4, 3, and 1 yo. All day. 8-6. I did everything i could to appease my parents in hopes to avoid physical, verbal, or sexual abuse. All he thinks about is video games or basketball in his free time...totally normal. I was making 10yr plans to graduate early, get my siblings, and get the fuck out of dodge. I'd also had lice for 5 yrs at this point, &