I’m 36 and recently divorced A note to my 20 something self: Watch out for these two types of partners, they will break your ❤️, and bank 1. Spenders 2. Thrifters Spenders will use up your soil without letting it recover, they leave nothing for your future. Thrifters are so focused on saving that they plant too little, missing out on a full harvest. Look for a partner who knows how to enjoy today’s harvest while planning for a strong crop tomorrow. (It’ll save you a bunch of arguments)