Over the weekend I received two requests to be a friend with benefits. At my age, a friend with benefits is Medicare or a Medicare Supplement plan.I was polite in my response. I told them that I have all my parts and most of them still work, but I wasn’t interested in a relationship that was built solely around sex. Can we get to know one another first before we decide to hop into bed? Is that too much to ask? And what about STDs?