I receive around 1k - 1.5k per month, cukup Alhamdulilah. Banyak save up daripada belanja. Tapi gaji husband x sampai 10k lah 🤭

Just provide her with comfortable place to live in, enough food and clothes, and satisfy her batin. If she does house chores, give her money as a present/reward for taking care of your house. Unless you don't provide her with all that, then you need to give her more of your salary. Kalau dia kerja tapi nak minta belanja itu ini yg bukan keperluan, you can reject her nicely and pay with her own money.

Kalau bentuk duit tak wajib..itu atas suami nak bagi..kalau keperluan nafkah yg wajib dah selesai berapa2 pun ok

Never stated how much. Tolak semua komitmen, barg dapur, takaful medical card, sewa, bills, bg parents, belanja monthly husband dan anak2 sekolah, saving emergency, few sinking funds, segala jenis saving, minyak kereta. Balance semua isteri punye xkesah sikit atau byk. Yang penting perkara2 utama semua settle.

Wife keje ke x keje, kalau x keje bagi lah 1k utk dia belanja. Kalau dia keje, asal u pay for everything pon dah ok, sbb dia ada duit belanja sendiri.

Kalau dr pemahaman saya, you mean duit belanja kan? Actually, it's depends. Paling mudah, ask the wife, kalau rasa the figure higher than your expectation, discuss berapa the husband mampu beri. Like myself, we agree yg my husband willing to pay me 1k for each kids, sebab there are agreements between us lead to the amount. So, 5kids, 5k. Win - win situation. Nafkah yg wajib mmg dia dah sediakan. And alhamdulillah, income dia mampu yg membolehkan dia beri belanja seperti itu. So, yes. Discuss.

Ukuran dia how much do you really love your wife?