I remember being in a toxic, abusive relationship with one of my son’s father. He told me, “Ain’t nobody gonna want you with 3 kids. I was only with you bcz I was bored.” I was devastated . I had lost my identity and turned my back on myself & God. I don’t know why I never forgot that. Years laters, Here I am today, sitting in my backyard of a home we purchased watching the twins my husband and I created play happily. My hubby and I are going on our 7th anniversary. #1/2