A friend had been working in a job she enjoyed for last 10 years but was told 6 months ago that her job was being axed (in reality she was replaced by cheaper juniors) 4 months of unhappiness and soul searching followed before she managed to find a more highly paid job that she enjoys even more. Key takeaways 1. Employers are rarely loyal or fair 2. Making your happiness dependent on the job you do is wrong 3. Being positive even when we are at our lowest ebb is imp