i remember when i was 8 years old , i got 30/40 for maths , I thought it was good enough and showed her happily . But mom scolded me😫. 6th place in class is a loser, my brother always got no 1. Im reminding my self to not give too much pressure to my kids academics. In the end academics don’t determine you will be 100% sucesfull in life, life skills is more important.