Copy & Paste SHE'S TOXIC RIGHT? •But was she toxic before you lied to her about another woman? •Was she toxic before you took advantage of her trust? •Was she toxic before forgiving you for hurting her repeatedly? You drained her, You hurt her, and made her question her worth. Now you expect her to be the same person she was in the beginning? And suddenly, she's "crazy" for reacting this way.