On Tuesday we went to our bank and officially split up all our finances. Afterwards, he walked me to my car and we talked sincerely. He was nice, but it was incredibly hard. I ended up crying in public because I can only take so much. I'll never understand how he could just leave, after everything we've been thru. If a marriage is love-less/abusive/beyond saving, then fine divorce. But I know without doubt that we would save the marriage if he only wanted to. But you can't make someone stay. 💔