I were a dedicated member and Deacon at a church for 2.5 years, helping the minister establish it from home fellowships to securing a building. When I my faced legal troubles, I informed the pastor about my situation. During your 5+ years in prison, the pastor never visited or contacted me, though a female friend has maintained contact. Now that I'm close to release, they want me to return to the church. My friend suggests I shouldn't be upset, but I am unsure whether to return since I