This older man just came up to me at a coffee shop as I’m deeply focused on reading a research article. “You’re supposed to be smiling. It’s Halloween.” First, I’m not supposed to be doing anything. Second, I’m studying somatic therapy techniques and their effect on individuals with trauma. It’s not a happy subject. Although it is very interesting. Third, I understand you might not realize this, sir, but this is very uncomfortable for me, as you are invading my personal space.