My mom has been beyond toxic my whole life. Her car broke down and I spent 3 weeks taking her back and fourth to work and even letting her use my spouse car on the weekends. She never volunteers to watch my kids.. so I told her that when she gets a car (which she did) I’m need a favor for you to watch the kids.. she joked and said no ma’am .. she is 53 and doesn’t have her shit together at all. She drains me bc she always has issues so I told her I was going through things as well not once did