Don't bother with a PL game - check out a non-league side like Dulwich Hamlet instead. If you're desperate to go to a PL stadium, it'll be cheaper and easier to see Arsenal women at the Emirates.

I usually get tickets through P1travel.com, they're licensed 3rd party ticket sellers. They usually only do hospitality which is more expensive but it's worth the experience especially if it's your first time at a game. You'll have staff around to help and food included. And they're highly responsive and reasonably priced.

In 2023 was able to get tickets for an arsenal home game via livefootballtickets.com. But I was anxious up until the point we successfully were scanned into the stadium. It worked for us, but no guarantees.