My husband did the meal planning, went grocery shopping, invited our guests, made salads, ensured we had a variety of drinks cold and ready, made desserts, brought me the cooking oil, utensils and plates so I could put the meat on after I cooked on the BBQ. Then my husband packed the dishwasher, washed the things that didn't fit in there, tidied the kitchen and threw out the trash. But everyone thanked ME for a great BBQ. I sure do know how to cook a perfect steak womeninmalefields