Relationships are a giving thing if you’re in a relationship trying to compete already coming in to say it’s not gonna work out then it’s never gonna work out it is two people willing to give to one another without judgment and love each other even through the bad times that they have . it is a work that means you have to be a worker not just for yourself but for you both and that’s where people mess up because really most people are selfish they don’t want to be a giver