Hi Ellie! It is actually a great question that your partner asked you. Have you tried sitting down and visualizing what greatness could look like to you? Imagine you have achieved it already, what would your environment look like, a typical day look like, what kind of personality would you have, how would you spend your time, how would it feel ? Writing it down might help you find some clarity regarding your next steps in a that direction. Feel free to message me if you want to talk more 😊