I see a lot of women "I shot my shot" its not only your weight people see. People are forgotting that there is more than weight to like and that you probably just had something else too that they didn't like. The moment I expected that I will never be skinny, I have literally 2 autoimmune diseases which one of them is Graves disease and should have made me skinny but even then I am still fat. I learned that as long as I am not in pain I really dont give a fxk what others think.