Being single in Christ is about “becoming,” to be whole, totally content and one in Christ, knowing who you are fully in Him. Not needing anybody to feel like somebody. Solitude not loneliness. Understanding that singleness allows you to be free of worldly cares and all-in-one with Christ. Godly embraced singleness is a pre-requisite to marriage. Being single with the idea to only work on yo self for a partner or marriage is rec for disaster.