As long as we believe there is God, we believe in Him, and are ready to work with Him then we must drop all personal desires and live for him. You see dear, ITS ALL ABOUT JESUS, NOTHING MORE OR LESS. If you insist on what you want then be ready for a life of sadness. Bcos God's will for us will always be best for us. We always want it our way...bt if we put on the cloak of humility and submission we end up happier.