I'm a medical professional. One day, a man came to see me due to "very intense" lumbar pain. I immediately asked him if he is sexually active, and because he said no, I came to the conclusion that his pain is just an illusion and it is attributed to the fact that he does not have a sex life, therefore he should get one. Later it turned out he was passing a kidney stone, but we all know it is all happening due to lack of sex. womeninmalefields