I’ve seen a lot of people trying to be allies - who I think genuinely do have good intentions - posting some hot garbage over the past couple days, and I’d like to remind all of us (yes, us, because being a disabled queer woman does not invalidate my white privilege: The phrase “use it or lose it” does not apply to your mouth. (Or your keyboard fingers. If you’re listening, supporting, and respecting people, I’m not talking to you. If, on the other hand, you feel attacked by what I’m 1/2