After having a child, it can feel like society sets impossible standards for moms: Complain? (“Who told you to have kids?”) Cry? (“Did you think this would be easy?”) Feel tired? (“What are you even doing?”) Sleep? (“You’re just lazy!”) Rest? (“You can do that when they’re grown.”) Get pregnant again? (“Are you serious? More kids?”) Quit work? (“How will you support them?”) Keep working? (“Who will take care of the baby?”) Use daycare? (“Don’t let others raise your child!”) (1/2)