To all the men out there telling their wives "it's gonna be ok", wake the Fck up! This has just set all the fights back decades. The only thing I could say to my wife when it happened was I'm sorry, and I held her while she sobbed. And I am sorry, I am so sorry to the women of this world, to all marginalised communities, ethnicities, and minorities. I am sorry, and I am angry. I will not give thoughts and prayers, instead I will fight harder for you all