Because I don't believe hardships with sleep are normal behaviour and could be trained. My experience is that baby who won't sleep at least once 3-6 hrs in a row during the night most likely lacks iron and vit B12 and should get his vit D and folate levels checked too or has allergies/silent reflux - or both. When the brain doesn't have the building blocks to produce sleep or the baby is in pain, then it's inhumane to try to force it.

Because sleep is biological and doesn’t need “training.” I chose to be a parent, that’s a 24/7 job. If I wanted to take care of something when it was convenient for me I would have got another plant 🪴

Because I don’t abuse and neglect my children