As my husband has gotten deeper into his field (sewer lining), he has been around more black men; he’s introverted. And he’s been humbled by how all of his coworkers hate black women. He is beginning to realize that he’s an exception to the rule, and that although he respect women as his equal; most do not. What’s been humbling him most, is how most of his counterparts lack self discipline & doesn’t have a life purpose beyond sex with women.