I should introduce myself (Day 3, I'm not on top of things). I'm a mother of two amazing men, I have a wonderful DIL and "presumptive DIL," and a mostly like-minded family. I've been a medical coder/insurance authorization specialist for 30+ years. Yes, I'm clinically insane. And I'm still so very angry with white women who betrayed us. I wasn't voting for Harris because she's a woman, but because I'M a woman.